Well, it’s Monday, the beginning of the first full week of April in 2023. I walked to the train today. This was not out of any cross-training notion or related goal. Rather, it was a consequence of something that happened on Saturday.
When I arrived at my destination train station after work on Saturday, walked to where my new bike was double-locked to the bike rack right at the main entrance of that train station, and where people are coming and going and waiting for trains all day on the platform, I found that my bike seat had been stolen, post and all. Since I am nowhere near good enough a rider to bike back to the house in a standing pedaling posture, I had to walk the bike back to the house on Saturday evening.
So, that’s that. I give up. I’m not going to get a new seat or anything; just flush the money I spent on the bike down the toilet, and good riddance to it. I’ve mentioned before that I don’t like relying on external, physical mechanisms, because worrying about maintaining them makes me tremendously stressed out. Well, that was true, and this whole debacle has driven that point home.
I don’t mind relying on my computer only because computers are so comparatively easy to replace nowadays, and the information in not solely locally saved but is online in various senses. If all of that goes haywire, the problems will be very large scale indeed, and personal irritation and inconvenience would probably be only a minor part of the situation.
Anyway, I’m writing this on the train now—not the first or second train of the day, but still one earlier than I would have caught if I had taken the bus to the other train station. I’ve already walked five miles, so that’s good exercise, at least. I have a new spandex knee brace on my left knee, because that knee has been given me some trouble with all the walking. I think the brace is doing me some good, so far, but I’ll know better at the end of the day.
I don’t really see too much point in trying to avoid pain. I’m never going to be able to avoid it, anyway, and my attempts to do so seem often just to trigger worse pain of new kinds. Not that I think I deserve any better, but pain does get in the way of some things.
There’s only one way to escape pain completely.
I’m trying to read and listen to some heartening books and/or podcasts and so on, but it’s getting harder and harder for me to find books or podcasts or blog posts—or shows or videos or anything else—that are interesting. The world basically feels like a wasteland; it’s dry and barren and dusty and dismal and as far as the eye can see—my eye, anyway, and its paired partner—there is no source of life, no oasis, no water or food.
It’s not even particularly hot or cold; that would make it more interesting than it is. It’s just stupid and pointless, and so am I. I’ve failed at all the things that matter the most to me in the world, and at many things that matter less. I’m no good at taking care of myself, and frankly, I don’t feel motivated to try. I’m just eroding and decaying and cracking into bits, slowly but inevitably.
I should be angry about having my bike seat stolen. I’m mostly just discouraged and fatigued. Not but what I think whoever did it should be punished, though I doubt they ever will be. I sometimes think I would gladly kill the person who took it if I could do so without any chance of facing legal consequences. I recognize that it would be out of proportion to the specific action, of course, but little, petty thefts like these undermine the very substance of civilization, and lead people like me steadily and inexorably closer to despair, and for what? Someone gets a new bike seat for which they didn’t have to pay. Maybe they pawned it for a small amount of money and used that to buy drugs or alcohol. If the former, I can at least hope that they got something laced with enough fentanyl to kill them.
I probably wouldn’t kill such a person even if I could get away with it, to be honest. I have very strong impulse control, and as I think I’ve said before, I don’t think I have any right not to be uncomfortable. The inability to feel self-righteous prevents a lot of terrible deeds in the world, I think. So many atrocities are committed by people who believe they are good and are doing good, or doing right, or think they are justly vengeful because they think have been wronged in some real, important way. And so they will wrong others, propagating cycles of cruelty and revenge and malice. It’s pathetic.
The world is a shithole, and there are fewer and fewer things in it that make up for that fact for me. But it’s not as though I deserve anything better. I give up. I’m not going to try to improve or grow or entertain any possibility of reclaiming or rebuilding my life. The Second Law of Thermodynamics always wins, anyway. It always will. I’m tired. I’m tired of trying. I’m just about out of gas. And the week is only just starting.
Get a new seat make it a cool one you know flames or wizard or whatever. Then get a few wields out in it can’t take it afterwards and it would be fun to watch someone try. See easy pizy and fun to boot. Go ride your bike they are still fun you can be too